Be Compassionate To Receive Compassion

By CarePatrol

In 2014 the California Supreme Court ruled that caregiver Carolyn Gregory could not sue the family of the dementia patient who sliced her wrist with a knife during a struggle resulting in ongoing pain. A recent Ohio State study found informal caregivers reported that 94% reported neuro-skeletal pain (76% of reports were in the lower back) that negatively impacted the caregivers quality of life.

CareerBuilder did a survey of employees working in healthcare and found that 69% reported feeling stressed in their job. Moreover, 25% of medical personnel plan to switch jobs in the coming year. With worker shortage in many industries, caregivers often work extended shifts and overtime. The health of healthcare workers is affected by what they see and experience. Exposure to human tragedy impacts all of us, especially caregivers.

The stoic behavior sometimes referred to as professionalism can end in personal struggles. Quick turnarounds in emergency departments with patient satisfaction scores add to the stress of the job. To feel important and know they are cared about is a universal human need. By focusing on others, the reciprocal relationship will happen most of the time. People are starving for a compliment.

Honey beats vinegar is an old saying about being nice to others. Give out what you seek is wise advise. Be compassionate to receive compassion. Give out compliments like candy when you are in need of a caregiver and watch how your care improves. It is often hard to remember when you are focused on your own needs and often pain, but it returns to you in many ways. Give it a try.